yin, yang and control

Nowadays, the yin and yang are used in all kinds of scenarios. People in general understand the two opposites idea: night-day, push-pull, yield-strike, man-woman, fire-water, heaven-earth, life-death. The yin and the yang are the tao, the wheel of life.

Side note: I did not put good-bad or evil-righteous. In the tao, the circling or cycling is what makes it good. As in: every time has a season-you know the scripture just think it real quick...


ok thanks. Less typing the stuff we know right?

Being a teacher for me is all about helping young people through a tough, pivotal and influential part of their lives. Changing lives through music (for you Brother Nelsen fans) is my mantra and junior high is the front lines of when lives change. This philosophy keeps me dodging and weaving through the weeks.

Then last week, I lost a student. Not to schedule changes, failing core classes, just not digging orchestra or moving-seen plenty of all of those. He committed suicide. He was a second year cello student. I actually kind of yelled at him that day to fix his posture, but honestly I got in his face every other week about his posture. His mom and me actually emailed each other that day.

I kind of feel like I failed the changing lives through music. I know I couldn't of done much. Everyone agrees it came out of nowhere. I honestly don't blame myself. But its still a shame. I am the rocks and metal that shape the water and here I am drowning in powerlessness.

I take control. I act and will not be a victim that is acted upon. But if there is a yang, there must be a yin. If I can take control, I must be able to relinquish. I must accept being acted upon.

With the death of the student, I can't do much about it (pray, help the impacted students...that's about it). Its done. I accept its done. It will wash over me until it decides that its done also.

However, both the yin and the yang are good and correct at the appropriate times. One of my sacred memories of my dad was when he would begin to get angry and then think and decide not to get mad. His changes working in a negative situation became a real positive to me.

If I can deal with this situation this with grace, it will be using the negative situation's energy against itself.

After I yield (hopefully not too long, eh?), the wheel of life will continue to turn. Life and light will be tightly treasured---and rightfully so.

Zions 2009

Marianne loves camping. This summer we finally went to Zions. Note: don't go on memorial weekend. Baby Neva really likes camping as well and doesn't mind sleeping in her car seat in the tent.
Marcellus is doing great at kindergarden and loves his teacher. He only seems to get in trouble when he doesn't feel like he got enough time tok do his drawings. (Marcellus takes around 15-30 minutes on most pictures.) He'll come home and proclaim in frustration:
"They did it AGAIN! School gave me paper with lines on it!" This took a while to figure out as we thought it meant the lined paper for writing letters. Nope paper with lines is when you color in the picture of the clown instead of drawing the clown.
Ah isn't family great!

Zen and the influence of the Holy Ghost

I enjoys studying about Zen. Below is an excerpt from "Zen in the Art of Archery" by Eugen Herrigel. Its about a German who move to Japan to understand the concepts behind Zen. Zen is not an action but a method. So it did not matter what he studied (painting, music, cooking, martial arts, chopping wood, whatever) but the mind set during and through the action was the important thing. I think it relates to what we call the workings of the Holy Ghost. In the church, we talk about what the Holy Ghost and its power to open our eyes in sacred and deeply meaningful ways. We believe that the Holy Ghost can be with us always unless we offend it, therefore it should be with us when we paint, cook, clean (ugh), chop wood, etc. How do accomplish that though? My attitude and mind set are often very different when I am reading the scriptures, fasting or at the temple compared to when I teach jr high, work on the yard and fill out lame paperwork. I think I know a lot more about getting the spirit that I know about keeping it actively with me (so then I go and get it again! Increasing my understanding on the getting side and slacking on my keeping side-not very tao of me, eh?) I think the attitude of Zen has helped and the Tai Chi philosophy of yielding is helping to understand how to hold on to the Holy Ghost more securely. These relate to the "Be still and know that I am God." Wait and act with the spirit-don't rush it let your actions flow like a water wheel and grow like an oak.


So to the book, I'll plug in more gospel-like word that could fill in for the Zen words. He starts by talking about why Zen (the Spirit) is so hard to teach or communicate fully.
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No reasonable person would expect the Zen (Holy Ghost, spiritually) adept to do more than hint at the experiences which have liberated and changed him, or to attempt to describe the unimahinable and ineffable "Truth" by which he now lives...Unless we enter into mystic (spiritual) experiences by direct paricipation, we remain outside, turn and twist as we may....Zen (the workings of the Spirit) can nonly be understood by one who is himself a mystic (spiritualist) and is therefore not tempted to gain by underhand methods what the...experience withholds from him.
Yet the man who is transformed by Zen (the Spirit), and who has passed through the "fire of truth" (baptism of fire), leads far too convincing a life for it to be overlooked. So it is not asking to much if, driven by a feeling of spiritual affinity, and desirous of finding a way to the...power which can work such miracles-for the merely curious have no right to demand anything-we expect the Zen (Spiritually) adept at least to describe the way that leads to the goal....How often is he tormented on the way by the desolate feeling that he is attempting the impossible! And yet this impossible will one day have become possible and even self-evident. Is there not room for the hope, then that a careful description of this long and difficult road will allow us at least one thing: to ask whether we wish to travel it?
[When talking about his Master]...No less decisive is the fact that his experiences, his conquests and spiritual transformations, so long as they still remain "his," must be conquered and transformed again and again until everything "his" is annihilated. Only i n this way can he attain a basis for experiences which , as the " all embracing Truth," rouse him to a life that is no longer his everyday personal life. He lives, but what lives is no longer himself.

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I don't think its a big stretch to see the gospel (eternal truths) in this Zen text. Worth pondering :)

Circles vs. Lines

Circles vs. Lines


When autumn winds blow (Nan no mama)
not one leaf remains (nokoreu ha mo nashi)
the way it was (aki no kaze)

By Togyu (1705-1749)

I love circles and so had to post this picture. Just count all the circles! Circles can respent all kinds of thing. The empty tome of Christ to Joseph Smith. The eternal nature of the elements and of the soul. To Taoists and in Tai Chi (the Tao being the classic yin/yang circling each other) they can represent the complementary nature of all things. In Tai Chi, we try to make all movements related to a circle. When you throw a punch, its not a straight line it will
move in a circle-using some degree of a down or up movement. Your shoulder rotation will make sure of that. The adage is circle to line, line to circle. When someone attacks with a line use a circle to carry his intent, this will open up for your own attack. When someone attacks with a line using a circle with carry the attack and open the attacker up.
Kind of a....the ways of God are one eternal round. Even our eternal plan is a big circle, we started in God's presence-learning and growing from Him and our goal is to return to God's presence-learning and growing from Him. We view our life as a time"line" with dates and progression and get depressed when we don't see the progression in our line thinking.
There is a Zen saying, "Before enlightenment chop wood carry water, after enlightenment chop wood carry water." We do the same things day in and day out, but like the music concert this day is different becasue we are different then yesterday.
We return to the same place (circle) but everything has changed (the autumn wind/line). This rejuvenates my day that seems to look a lot like the last 3 days/3 years.

(I'm going to have to write rough drafts! thanks for checking it out!)